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It may be time velop new interests and juggle so little respect for the envi- OF ITS BODY TO ‘0 step back and review your busy social lives, This is a fact inances and his, and whether of life. Because these neigh- ronment and their neighbors RESEMBLE A you should continue to be the bors have many other friends is disappointing. If you carry VENOMOUS SNAKE! sreadwinner. Things may get and contacts, they will find a out your fantasy, it will almost 2asier as your boyfriend gains way to fill their time if you con- certainly spark an angry and ad ‘ank and more seniority in the tinue being “busy.” nilitary. defensive reaction. If it would Crossword DEAR ABBY: Whenever I give you some sense of satis- DEAR ABBY: A couple moved see strangers, especially my faction, consider picking up aext door several years ago. 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