June 5, 2021 Activities 5 Girlfriend maintains a fan club on Facebook Dear Abby woman you’re involved with. If she were seeing these men in gery calendared. Tell her you will be with them in spirit on the real world, I would say you their special day, but her fa- DEAR ABBY: I’ve been dat- have a serious problem. But ther’s health must come first. ing the same woman for more she’s not, so it shouldn’t pres- Then stick to your guns. than two years. She is a beau- ent a threat unless you make it tiful lady who has quite a few one. DEAR ABBY: I work in a small male “fans” on Facebook, office of 15 people. The per- mostly from before we met. DEAR ABBY: My grandson, son next to me is diabetic and What bothers me, and I don’t who I haven’t seen in 10 years, wears a beeper that goes off understand why, is her habit is getting married to a girl all day long. Am I supposed to of posting selfies and then lov- I don’t know. My husband, endure this annoying sound ing the comments from other “Hank,” and I are invited to the even though she can put it men about her looks. We have wedding. We live 1,000 miles on vibrate? -- DISTURBED IN discussed this many times, but away, so we have to book a TEXAS she can’t seem to stop. flight, reserve a hotel and pay Other than this, we seem to for all our meals. DEAR DISTURBED: No, you have a healthy relationship Hank has been waiting the are not. Ask your co-worker if with the occasional, normal last three months for a date putting her beeper on vibrate hiccups. I would like to take for knee surgery. Most of the would work for her, because it to the next level, but I can’t time, he’s in pain -- especially the sound distracts you. If help wondering if the Face- when he walks. My daughter she’s willing to do that, your book habit is a sign that she thinks we should postpone his problem is solved. However, if needs more than what our re- surgery to attend the wedding. she isn’t, then it may be time lationship is giving her. Please What do you think? -- DEBAT- to discuss this with your su- advise. -- HESITANT IN OHIO ING IN THE SOUTH pervisor or employer because it may be possible to relocate DEAR HESITANT: Her Face- DEAR DEBATING: Of course your workstation to another book habit may be a sign that your daughter wants her fa- area. your lady friend is insecure -- ther at her son’s wedding. That or conceited -- about her looks, she would be disappointed -- Dear Abby is written by Abigail which is why she encourag- as would the both of you -- is Van Buren, also known as Jeanne es these “fans” by “hearting” understandable. But does she Phillips, and was founded by her their comments. Frankly, it’s really want him there limping, mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact sad that she needs more vali- wincing and in constant pain? Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com dation than she can get from Remind her that it has taken or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, one person, but that’s the three months to get this sur- CA 90069. Crossword Current puzzle answers Get Fuzzy Garfield Dilbert Drabble Dailies Pearls Before Swine