June 11, 2019 Issue, Page 9 of 10

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Activities _ After 30 years, husband says Qiney's_—_-Believe It or Not/- marriage isn’t what he wanted ue fe | with him, and if he tells you need to give this internship he meant what he said, you more time? -- ACROSS THE are justified in feeling the way COUNTRY DEAR ABBY: Just months you describe. The questions DEAR ACROSS: You before our 30th wedding an- then become are you better signed on for the internship niversary, my husband told with him or without him, and for a good reason -- to learn. me he doesn’t love me and what are your legal rights in Having done that, it will be never wanted to marry me. I the state in which you and not only educational but also am beyond devastated. I feel I this man live. (Not referring character-building to see it have wasted the best years of to him as your “husband” was through until the end of the my life. We have two beauti- not an oversight.) ful daughters who are my DEAR ABBY: I recently summer. This isn’t forever, and the lessons you learn may eueel everything. last a lifetime. When he revealed this news left my job and flew across CF ep008 piper tome, it turned my life upside the country for an internship DEAR ABBY: My 15-year- OF THE down. I don’t know how to on a small farm to learn about old son has difficulty express- AFRICAN DESERT process it or what to do. I sustainable farming. I have ing himself and keeps things AMBUSHES been here a week. Ihave met a> ITS PREV have spent years begging him bottled up. You often advise to be more affectionate and some awesome people and people to seek counseling. loving. I always assumed he have been having some fun Could you please advise me TELEPHONE Was FizsT INSTALLED just didn’t know how to show with them in my free time. about how to begin that pro- IN THE WHITE House IN, 1877, AND (TS love. It never crossed my However, I’m now having PHONE NUMBER WAS "1." mind that he has never loved second thoughts. cess and how to find the right me. I feel naive, betrayed and This is hard, physical labor, fit and person for one’s indi- robbed. -- HOPELESS IN and my living conditions are vidual needs? -- INVOLVED THE MIDWEST alot more rustic and commu- PARENT IN VIRGINIA nal than I was led to believe. DEAR HOPELESS: When There is no electricity in our DEAR PARENT: Start by your husband handed you quarters, and we cook our asking your doctor to refer that “bouquet,” was he angry meals outside on a propane you to a specialist who works Was CALLED THE Rewpeereie wownsipleys.com ICINCKB UA or inebriated? It is hard to stove. Also, the internship is with adolescents. The compa- believe that a man would stay unpaid, and I'll have to pay to ny that provides your health 109 married for 30 years to some- take a summer class. insurance can also give you one he didn’t love and didn’t While I feel I am benefiting some referrals. After you and Distributed by Andrews McMeel for UFS. e2oro.ipiey Enttaiomentinc. GY want to marry in the first from this experience, I miss your son meet the candidates, place. (Shotgun weddings are my old job (which I can get itis simply a matter of choos- long out ofstyle.) back) and the more comfort- ing a therapist your son feels Revisit that conversation able lifestyle. Do you think I comfortable talking with. 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