May 28, 2019 Issue, Page 19 of 20

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Activities Rreys—Believe It or Not’ rent and contributes to meals. Dear Abby LOST: DEAR LONELY AND You may love the The problem is, she has DEAR ABBY: I was mar- person your ex-husband was paysfriends told rent that because she she shouldn't have ried to my husband for 29 in the beginning, but you di- years. We were separated off vorced him for good reasons. to help around the house. My and on more than 10 of those Chief among them, he became husband and I both work. It years. We were both in other someone else because ofhis would be nice if she would relationships but would re- addiction and his choices. He cook us dinner occasion- connect for months and some- may blame you for divorcing ally or do the dishes. I have times years. Then, because him, but if you hadn’t done it, our lifestyles are so different, he probably would not have asked, but she always has an we would split up again. straightened out. Sometimes excuse. I don’t know how to I divorced him two years love is not enough, particular- tell her we are not a bed and ago, but we see each other off ly when it’s a one-way street. breakfast. She has the ability and on as friends. I haven't Itis time to quit looking to help. Advice? - HELPER been in a relationship since backward and concentrate Atwosr % percent our divorce becauseI still on your future. See your ex NEEDS HELP, TOO OF THE Ice love him. He couldn’t stop the as little as possible, and allow . IN THE street life, and I got tired of yourself to grieve the lost DEAR HELPER: [hope # ANTARCTIC GLACERS GuineseMATHEMATICIAN AN ZHANG HENG living on the edge with him. relationship for a specific you realize that as your H penalMADE OP OF i PENGUIN URINE.— INVENTED A Set \32 AD He’s now in church, off period of time. When that friend’s dementia progresses YT COULD ACCURATELY DETECT EARTHQUAKES 250 MILES AWAY. drugs. He has gained back time period is over, concen- some weight and looks like trate on meeting new people she will no longer be able to the man I first fell in love and cultivating new interests. help around the house, and it with. I tell him every time I see him that I still love him, Ifnecessary, talking with a could actually be dangerous therapist may be helpful, and for her to cook. It would be AgouTt 7 PERCENT but he doesn’t believe me Thope you will consider it. OF ALL HUMANS better for all concerned if her and acts like he hates me. We There is life after this, but family would start looking at WHO HAVE Ev ER LIVED have a 27-year-old daughter only if you will allow it. he loves and sees. DEAR ABBY: My best dementia care facilities for her, THE EARLIER THE ARE ALIVE RIGHT NoW/ Ithink of the good times we had together day and night. friend of 50 years was recent- BETTER so she will have Ican’t sleep sometimes and ly diagnosed with early stages time to adjust. Some of them Distributed by Andrews McMeel for UFS. feel so unhappy without him. of Alzheimer’s. Because her offer graduated levels of care Abby, what can I do to move memory was beginning to on? -- LONELY AND LOST IN slip, my husband and Imoved to meet the patient’s increas- MARYLAND her in with us. She pays us ing needs. Please consider it. rossword 17 JOT NOT MY Nau TRIKE? THAT DAD MAGUET Edy! 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